Saturday, October 10, 2015 9:00 am ·  0 Comments
Unlike many of his friends, he never really got the chance to be a kid. When he was just 13 years old, his mom was diagnosed with cancer. The younger of two siblings, Marshall stuck close to his mother while she was sick. When she passed away two years later, Marshall was on his own.
“So much changed in the course of a day,” he says, “I feel like I’m 30 today.”
With their dad out of the picture, Marshall and his sister temporarily lived with their aunt and uncle. But the new living arrangements proved to be tough on everyone and Marshall soon found himself sleeping at shelters and friend’s houses.
When he turned 16 Marshall was referred to Community Youth Programs (CYP), a United Way Oakville funded agency that provides residential placement for youth not able to live with their family, and not yet ready to be independent. It was a slow adjustment, but with the tough love and support offered by the program, Marshall was able to start piecing his life back together.
“The push you need is always a helping hand from someone else,” Marshall reflects about CYP, “they helped me realize that I had to take care of myself first.”
Marshall lived at CYP for 2 years, and continued to get help from their transitional support program when he moved out. His support worker Susan worked with him to find living accommodations, help navigate debt issues and apply for school.
Marshall’s been on his own for five years now, and Susan has become a great mentor and friend. She has helped him to overcome challenges and deal with problems that would seem insurmountable to any child or youth. At a time when he needed help, Marshall received the structure, support and tools to help him get back on his feet. But that’s not all. Marshall was also a big part of his own accomplishments and success.
“I always ask myself, ‘what would my mom say if I wasn’t happy today?’” he comments, “and that’s why I work so hard, because she would want me to be happy.”